Spoiling or Accommodations?

Spoiler: “To my complete disbelief, she affirmed the decisions we are making to accommodate our son. Not only that, she said she was impressed. She has worked with children and adults with autism for twelve years…the same number of years incidentally, that I have also unknowing been working with autism. And she said she can see the positive impact our accommodations are having on my son and his self-image.”
~Jen GS